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Get tools, scripts, and support rooted in neuroscience and real-life parenting. Created for parents who are done yelling, done guessing and ready to raise emotionally healthy kids. 

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The Holiday S.H.I.F.T. Parent Circle

Stay calm, connected, and confident through the holiday season If the holidays tend to feel more frazzled than festive, you’re not alone. Between the chaos, emotions, and endless to-dos, it’s easy to lose your sense of calm. But you don’t have to just power through — there’s another way. The Holiday S.H.I.F.T. Parent Circle is a live, small-group experience designed to help you navigate this season with more ease, warmth, and presence. Over 12 weeks, you’ll learn practical tools to regulate your emotions, guide your kids with confidence, and bring more peace to your home — even when things get messy.

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What’s Included?

●  12 Live Sessions over 12 Weeks – Build real, lasting skills with ongoing support. ●  Interactive & Personalized – Not a pre-recorded course. You’ll receive live coaching and gentle accountability. ●  Session Recordings Provided – Rewatch anytime, so you never miss a thing.

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The S.H.I.F.T. Framework

Each week, we’ll explore a key piece of the S.H.I.F.T. approach to calmer, more connected parenting: 🌿 S – Self-Regulate: Stay grounded when things get loud. 💛 H – Hold Boundaries with Love: Set limits without guilt or yelling. 🪞 I – Instruct Over Punish: Teach, don’t just react. 🤝 F – Foster Connection: Rebuild trust after tough moments. 🧠 T – Teach Emotional Intelligence: Help your child understand and manage their big feelings. Join us and rediscover the calm, connection, and confidence your family deserves this holiday season. 💫.

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💬 How to Be Part of the Program 

Step 1 – Explore: Take a moment to read through the program details and see if it resonates with where you and your family are right now. Step 2 – Connect: If you have any questions or want to talk it through, you can book a free discovery call or email us — we’ll help you determine if this circle is the right fit for you. Step 3 – Enroll: If you’re ready to join, simply visit the enrollment page  to enter your information and complete your enrollment. Spots are limited to keep the group experience intimate and supportive. ✨ Your calm, confident holiday season starts here.

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Have questions about fit? If you'd like to chat more before making a decision, feel free to book a discovery call—I'd genuinely love to connect with you. Ready to enroll? Fantastic! You can secure your spot by clicking the Enrollment Button below.

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Heal your inner child and raise your actual child with online parenting services.

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DIY Course

"Learn how to stop yelling, manage behavior and build a calm, connected home - at your own pace." If you're tired of feelings like you're constantly losing it, snapping, yelling, or giving in, this self paced course is your starting line. 
With practical tools, easy-to0sollfow lessons and printable guides, you'll finally understand why your child acts the way they do and how to correct them without punishment, guilt or shame. 

Group Coaching

"Finally, real support, real skills, and real parents who get it."

This isn't just another Facebook group or parenting book club. This is a  6-month , guided journey through the SHIFT Parenting Framework, in a safe, supportive group where you'll get coaching, accountability and transformation. 

No more trying to piece things together alone. We meet weekly to troubleshoot your toughest moments, teach practical skills, and rewire the way you show up as a parent, all without judgement. 

1:1 Parent coaching

"Work with Gabriel directly to build the parenting strategy your family deserves."

You've tried everything. Books, blogs, TikTok's and nothing is sticking! You love your child deeply, but the constant meltdowns, defiance, or emotional rollercoaster is wrecking your peace, your confidence and your connection. 

This is a high-touch, custom coaching program for parents who want direct support from Gabriel to resolve root issues and create lasting change, not just surface level fixes. 

Get to know me

Heal your inner child

I’m not your typical parenting coach. I don’t believe in quick fixes, sticker charts, or shaming kids into behaving. I’m here because I’ve lived the chaos as an educator, a coach, and a parent. I’ve seen what happens when kids are misunderstood, when behavior is treated like rebellion instead of communication, and when adults try to parent with tools they were never taught how to use. With a background in Applied Behavior Analysis, special education, and trauma-informed care, I’ve spent over a decade helping families untangle the mess of parenting through a lens of neuroscience, self-regulation, and compassion. But I’m not just trained. I’m battle-tested.  
I created SHIFT Parenting because I wanted to give parents what most of us never got: ✅ A framework that actually works ✅ Support that doesn’t shame ✅ Tools that honor your child and your limits If you’re ready to stop surviving and start shifting, I’m here to help you get there. Let’s do this together.

— Gabriel

Gabriel H.

Parent Coach, Special Education educator and your friend

Frequently asked questions

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SHIFT Parenting is a neuroscience-based coaching program that helps parents of neurodivergent, neurotypical and highly sensitive children, break generational cycles, learn emotional regulation, and build practical tools to manage behavior with confidence and compassion.

Our program is ideal for parents who: Feel overwhelmed, angry, or stuck in power struggles Are raising neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia, etc.) Want to parent differently than they were raised Struggle with yelling, punishment, or inconsistency Desire clear, step-by-step guidance rooted in brain science.

Each tier of SHIFT Parenting includes:

Weekly coaching calls or training sessions

Practical tools and printables (behavior trackers, scripts, emotion charts)

Access to a private support community

Recorded content for flexible learning

Real-time support for implementation

Most programs give vague advice without showing you how to implement it when things get real. SHIFT gives you the neuroscience behind behavior and real-life scripts, tools, and follow-up coaching to make it work in your unique family.

Yes! SHIFT includes strategies to unify parenting styles, reduce conflict, and help both caregivers understand how their own upbringing affects their parenting today.

SHIFT Parenting supports families with kids from toddlers to teens, tailoring strategies to match your child’s developmental stage and specific challenges.

We offer:

Flexible payment plans

Occasional scholarship spots

Free resources on our social media and email list

We believe transformation should be accessible. Reach out and we’ll try to help in any way we can. 

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Registered Behavioral Technician and Special Education Educator